TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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You have to remember these devices aren’t tested. They’re not medical devices, so there’s basically no science telling us if they’re safe or dangerous. Too loose, and it could fall off while wearing it, which is an uncomfortable thing to experience if you’re wearing your cage in public. Measure several times, at different times of day. Your penis naturally changes size throughout the day.

They’re designed to inhibit erection and orgasm and hand over control to the Key Holder in the ultimate form of orgasm control. Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis.So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. The measurements you’ll need are length and girth, plus the circumference from underneath your balls and over your penis. Write down these measurements while both flaccid and erect. Shaving your public hair can also help with this, and reduce the chance of pain for your hair being pulled by the cage. Not to get all preachy about the prevalence of porn and instant gratification in our society or anything, but…

Generally wearing a chastity device does not hurt, but you shouldn’t always expect it to feel comfortable right away. It can take a some time to become used to it; both physically and mentally. Once you’ve become accustomed to wearing it at times it will sometimes feel as if the cage is “caressing” your penis. This can heighten arousal, and feels like you’re wearing your own personal “bondage cuddle”. It depends. If you want something to wear on and off during scenes, then a bit of discomfort could be acceptable if that’s what you and your partner want. Long story short, you don’t want to go outside and have everyone looking at your cage underneath your trousers. Sleeker plastic cages will be better for this as they are easier to wear and move around in, and often less bulky under the pants.

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If it’s not comfortable to wear, but you want it on forever, ask yourself: “Is this worth losing my penis over?” Don’t be afraid to try multiple cages. Finding one that fits well can massively enhance your chastity experience. When I say “effectively”, that means a few things. It should keep it secure, obviously. But also consider how hard you want it to restrain erections. This measurement is the circumference of your penis and scrotum. You need to divide this number by 3.14 to get the diameter.

And if you answered yes, then… Well, damn. That’s hardcore, dude. You probably know more about this fetish than I do, so don’t listen to me. Consider the temperature when measuring. If it’s cold your penis will be smaller. If it’s warm your penis will be larger. Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable? The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful.

The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience. When you try a new cage, pay attention to your body. Any discomfort or pain indicates a problem with the fit.